Personally, I don’t like the affirmation, “I will remain confident and unaffected by negative attitudes around me”. To me an affirmation doesn’t include what we are unaffected by as much as what we are greatly drawn too.
Something that helps me in this area is to affirm that I am compassionate, accepting and loving toward people. What that seems to do is fill those who I might have seen as negative as people who now have something better I can see in them, as compared to I being simply unaffected by the negative I would’ve experienced from them. The more I see others in the best light, the more others will be experienced in a better way. They will see (more) good in others, and I will see it in everyone.
I just put that affirmation in my list as an idea to create one similar to it.
What I actually say is part of my psychic protection shield mantra that I put up daily before I am off to work.
I say this:
I charge this protection shield to protect me from all harm. All physical harm, all physical and energetic and psychic and mental pollution, both of my own making and from all others that I may encounter or interact with today.
In response to handcraftedcollectibles’s comment: I really like that: “I am confident with an attitude of positive confidence that I share with others by being my best self.”
I also like I am better, better and better in being my best self, and my best self sees the best and brings out the best in others.
For me, by saying this better, better-idea it brings about feeling good and doing good in a flow of improvement.
I like this affirmation, it was helping me keep sort of grounded when confronted by people who use personal insults to get their point across, there are people out there that do that, I have been confronted and still am by someone who uses personal insults, has digs and trys to belittle me, I understand it is their issues not mine. I am sensitive soul and a reacter, who sticks up for self, which only adds more fuel to the fire on peoples part thou. Having this affirmation and my recently added new ones puts up a wall between me and people so I am unaffected by what they say. Which is a good thing.
In response to Ardina’s comment: I love the fact you said you are “an agent of change, which makes me easy pickins for those who resist change”. It reminds me of an Einstein quote I once read “Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocre minds” :)
Great quote!!!! Albert Einstein is one of my favorite,what a great source of wisdom!! I love this site n just signed up…it’s very close to the new year and I have not been this excited for a new in many years!!! I too enjoy change but I got stuck in a rut during and after my marriage ended… I learned alot during this time but feel a season has ended and a new one is beginning and not just for me I believe it’s a Universal thing.. I believe as a planet we are vibrating at a higher level than ever before..it’s as if this window of learning n opportunity is wide open for all..Some are getting it at a faster rate n have been guiding people in n some are just beginning.. There is no good or bad place, it’s all lessons n acceptance..I believe truth is now at the forefront….it’s as if people who use to cheat, manipulate there way to success are being seen clearly n people with integrity and truth are finally having there day in the sun if u will!! I know it all seems simplistic but it’s just a slight glimpes n comment of all I have been experiencing n seeing for some time now and it appears to be getting stronger n more clear to me daily… It a beautiful world out there and such a beautiful time to experience n witness… I also personally think the energy will continue to raise till 2012 and that is when the biggest shift will Happen n we will experience complete heaven on earth!!! It’s not the end of the world we are moving towards it’s a brand new Beginning!!!!
I send truth n love to all n blessings beyond!!! JodyK.
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2008-11-02
I chose this affirmation because I have been living it for the past couple of years. I am an agent of change, which makes me easy pickins for those who resist change. Thanks for this and thank you Lee, for fillin up a well that almost went dry!!!