Personally, I don’t like the affirmation, “I will remain confident and unaffected by negative attitudes around me”. To me an affirmation doesn’t include what we are unaffected by as much as what we are greatly drawn too.
Something that helps me in this area is to affirm that I am compassionate, accepting and loving toward people. What that seems to do is fill those who I might have seen as negative as people who now have something better I can see in them, as compared to I being simply unaffected by the negative I would’ve experienced from them. The more I see others in the best light, the more others will be experienced in a better way. They will see (more) good in others, and I will see it in everyone.
I just put that affirmation in my list as an idea to create one similar to it.
What I actually say is part of my psychic protection shield mantra that I put up daily before I am off to work.
I say this:
I charge this protection shield to protect me from all harm. All physical harm, all physical and energetic and psychic and mental pollution, both of my own making and from all others that I may encounter or interact with today.
In response to handcraftedcollectibles’s comment: I really like that: “I am confident with an attitude of positive confidence that I share with others by being my best self.”
I also like I am better, better and better in being my best self, and my best self sees the best and brings out the best in others.
For me, by saying this better, better-idea it brings about feeling good and doing good in a flow of improvement.
I like this affirmation, it was helping me keep sort of grounded when confronted by people who use personal insults to get their point across, there are people out there that do that, I have been confronted and still am by someone who uses personal insults, has digs and trys to belittle me, I understand it is their issues not mine. I am sensitive soul and a reacter, who sticks up for self, which only adds more fuel to the fire on peoples part thou. Having this affirmation and my recently added new ones puts up a wall between me and people so I am unaffected by what they say. Which is a good thing.
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2008-11-02
I chose this affirmation because I have been living it for the past couple of years. I am an agent of change, which makes me easy pickins for those who resist change. Thanks for this and thank you Lee, for fillin up a well that almost went dry!!!