Hi Lemur, I just read your post, I guess you are already “unstuck”, just by being here. :-)

I quit often fall into the hole and that is because of my negative thoughts. Now everytime I catch my thoughts going that direction, I start repeating my affirmations and collecting proofs for them, and mainly feeling myself loved. Love, Afi

In response to aftab’s comment: Thank you! I hope so. It’s funny because w/my career I’ve almost always been positive- never been without a job and am usually happy w/work (been at this one six years) but when it comes to relationships- ugh! But you are right about negative thoughts- I’m trying to affirm and stop the negatives- I don’t know why this one has been so hard.