★Ever heard of MGTOW or NAWALT

This is fascinating stuff. Here is a video I think you should watch and think about. The Female MRA

The Isolated Male

In response to Smart_Routines_With_Enthusiasm’s post:
Wow, this is fascinating!

No, I had never heard of this!!

Wow, this is really huge…! What an untouched, unseen, unidentified issue, that seems to be enormous. Suddenly, this is making a LOT of sense…

I’m amazed, and I’m grateful that you have brought this to my awareness!

I just stumbled across that and I also found it fascinating, and enlightening. Stuff I had never really thought about before, at least deeply. Thoughts like that have crossed my mind from time to time, but, I was really fascinated by what was being said. A new “school of thought” for me I guess I’d say. I’ve been toying around with the idea of getting a girlfriend lately and over the last few weeks I’ve watched several videos in this regard. I’ve been thinking, yes, I sometimes would like to have a girlfriend, but, honestly, it is really a lot of work to have one and I’m just not sure if I’m up to it. I do like my freedom and autonomy and if I were to try to get a girlfriend I’d only want one if it were a true win/win. Anyway, that is how I stumbled across that stuff.

In response to Smart_Routines_With_Enthusiasm’s post:

For me, your win-win post inspired some sharing . (not now) (:
All of us will have our own history of experiences… though sharing assists getting clear w/our own feelings and hearing one another in terms of feelings & experiences. Thanks Jeff for always being so open & sharing yours.

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  In response to Smart_Routines_With_Enthusiasm’s post:
  I haven’t focused on the videos as of yet, though I have listened to the first one. I will return …and add later. I’m giving it some space… before responding.

As always, thank you for what you bring here(:

In response to Smart_Routines_With_Enthusiasm’s post:
I agree with everything you are discussing…

I am in a similar place, and I also love my space, freedom and above all, my serenity!

Relationships are a lot of work, and its a job that is never ending. And, the older we get, the state of our health, or that of our significant other can become high maintenance. Doctors, pharmacy, supplies, insurance, paperwork, phone calls and expenses.

I will be looking at this subject online. It is so pivotal, and it sure makes a lot of sense. I’m grateful to hear about this now. I just wonder, if I had known this earlier, how much more balanced my perceptions would have been.