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★5 Life Lessons

5 Life Lessons
1 – First Important Lesson – Cleaning Lady.

During my second month of college, our professor
gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student
and had breezed through the questions until I read
the last one:

“What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?”
Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the
cleaning woman several times. She was tall,
dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name?

I handed in my paper, leaving the last question
blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if
the last question would count toward our quiz grade.

“Absolutely,” said the professor. “In your careers,
you will meet many people. All are significant. They
deserve your attention and care, even if all you do
is smile and say “hello.”

I’ve never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her
name was Dorothy.

2. – Second Important Lesson – Pickup in the Rain

One night, at 11:30 P.M., an older African American
woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway
trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had
broken down and she desperately needed a ride.
Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.
A young white man stopped to help her, generally
unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man
took her to safety, helped her get assistance and
put her into a taxicab.

She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his
address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a
knock came on the man’s door. To his surprise, a
giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A
special note was attached..

It read:
“Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway
the other night. The rain drenched not only my
clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.
Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying
husband’s bedside just before he passed away.. God
bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving
others.”

Sincerely,
Mrs. Nat King Cole.

3 – Third Important Lesson – Always remember those
who serve.

In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,
a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and
sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in
front of him.

“How much is an ice cream sundae?” he asked.

“Fifty cents,” replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and
studied the coins in it.

“Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?” he inquired.

By now more people were waiting for a table and the
waitress was growing impatient.

“Thirty-five cents,” she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins.

“I’ll have the plain ice cream,” he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on
the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice
cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress
came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the
table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish,
were two nickels and five pennies..

You see, he couldn’t have the sundae, because he had
to have enough left to leave her a tip.

4 – Fourth Important Lesson – The obstacle in Our Path.

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a
roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if
anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the
king’s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by
and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the
King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did
anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of
vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the
peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the
stone to the side of the road. After much pushing
and straining, he finally succeeded. After the
peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed
a purse lying in the road where the boulder had
been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note
from the King indicating that the gold was for the
person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The
peasant learned what many of us never understand!

Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve
our condition.

5 – Fifth Important Lesson – Giving When it Counts…

Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a
hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who
was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only
chance of recovery appeared to be a blood
transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had
miraculously survived the same disease and had
developed the antibodies needed to combat the
illness. The doctor explained the situation to her
little brother, and asked the little boy if he would
be willing to give his blood to his sister.

I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a
deep breath and saying, “Yes I’ll do it if it will
save her.” As the transfusion progressed, he lay in
bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did,
seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his
face grew pale and his smile faded.

He looked up at the doctor and asked with a
trembling voice, “Will I start to die right away”.

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the
doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his
sister all of his blood in order to save her and with
his love he was willing to do it.

Hugs to all,
Mary

In response to godscreation’s post:
AMAZING MARY!
You have put a smile on my face this monday morning. Such wonderful lessons. Such humility and grace. I loved every one of them. Thankyou for sharing these with us.

Wonderful lessons I will take away with me and help to keep me grounded today….

Bless you Mary,
Anoushka :O)

A full and thankful heart..

Simply beautiful. This post brought a tear to my jaded eyes. Thank you.

All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.
— Gandalf, J.R.R. Tolkien
I’m Alright
Life Less Ordinary

Something there for everyone. For me it’s the obstacle. I know there’s an opportunity on the other side but the boulder is large. Thanks for sharing.

AWESOME!

I always remember that a person should not judge another person and always be polite.

One late evening I was wandering around the campus and as I was walking into the cafeteria, a man was coming out and I accidentaly hit him with the door and bumped his head. I apologised, but the man screamed and pushed me against the wall. I was so angry at him and made a nasty remark. My remark upset him even more. In the cafeteria personnel were discussing this man and how he had slipped and dropped a tray of food on the floor and then stormed out of the cafeteria.
A few days later my friends who also knew this man told me that on that day his mom and the little brother died in a car accident and his apartment was robbed.

To this day I regret my remark to him. In my thoughts I keep saying to him that everything will be ok.
Today from my friends I know that he is married, has children and doing well.

In response to Bendyamind’s post:

Bendyamind what beautful words and feelings you express. We never know what someone is holding in their bag. You still wished him well. Some people wouldn’t have even bothered or had regrets. I know I have done things which I have regretted later.

Peace,
Mary

In response to Bendyamind’s post:
In response to godscreation’s post:

I agree with Godscreation. What a wonderful story Bendyamind. It certainly made me think. I often let my temper get the better of me at the spur of the moment. Thank you for this wonderful lesson. You never really have the right to lose it with anyone. Stop, breathe and reassess before engaging mouth with mind! I must remember that. Nobody’s perfect huh?

A full and thankful heart..

enjoyed this thread again(:

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♫Frampton I love enjoying this surrender. It is always beyond my wildest imagination of completion

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