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10 Reasons to not Judge People
excerpts Reframe. When someone does something you don’t like, perhaps think of it as they are simply solving a problem in a different way than you would. Or maybe they have a different timetable than you do. This may help you be more open-minded and accepting of their behavior. The Dalai Lama says: “People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they’re not on your road doesn’t mean they’ve gotten lost.”

Barbara Markway Ph.D.

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“I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.”
― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When it comes to the crusty behavior of some people, give them the benefit of the doubt. They may be drowning right before your eyes, but you can’t see it. And you’d never ask someone to drown with a smile on his face.”
― Richelle E. Goodrich, Smile Anyway: Quotes, Verse, & Grumblings for Every Day of the Year

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Thank you Appreciating!

Your timing couldn’t be more perfect!!!

Kathi

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

So very glad(: Thanks for sharing Kathi.

I AM
Peaceful:
Emotions, Sensations ,
& Feelings

The quote actually makes the words of someone near and dear to my heart come forth. “They are not mean, they are just green”, often shared by Ruth Rattler.

Simply put, the meaning is people are just like fruit. When you attempt to partake of fruit before it ripens like a green apple for example, it is often too tart for you to enjoy and the consumption of it may give you a tummy ache. However, if you wait until it ripens it is ultimately a nutritious and delicious treat, so it is with us. Let us be tolerant and patient with those who speak harshly or seem to fly off the handle without provocation, let the phrase come to mind “They are not mean, they are just green. “

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