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Happiness Meeting -Valentine's DayAllowing Self Compassion Everyday

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Title:-Valentines Day - Allowing Self Love Every Day

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Suggested Focus Questions :

(inspired by Ariane Benefit)

1) What might inspire me to be 
do have what I am so desiring?

2) I am so desiring ….


 

3) What is on my mind right now that I know needs my attention in an important way ?

4) The important things on my mind are now:
 
5) “What might make it easier for me
to learn about ___________

To learn about _______ I will ____
 
6) “What might make looking at my calendar
even more enjoyable
for things I look forward to doing?”
7) I will love to look at what is coming up because: ____

8) create your own questions or affirmations & just enjoy yourself 



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It’s not quite officially Valentines Day

& this meeting thread isn’t really completely created  
though join in as is

& love  love

love

your very self today & everyday 💖

being a gift to ourselves to



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 “I fully embrace my life, exactly as it is. I love myself entirely as I am. I give thanks for this wondrous day.”

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(inspired by Ariane Benefit)


think about it:

What might inspire You

to be

do

have

what You 

are

so desiring?

 

What is on

your

mind right now

that

You

know needs

Your

attention in an important way ?

 

“What might make it easier for You 

to learn about ___________

 

“What might make looking at Your calendar

even more enjoyable

for things You look forward to doing?”

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Let’s love ourselves well so we can be who we really are - Love 

Link to previous meeting Link

 

link to older meeting

 

would enjoy anyone who would like to stop by

All welcome

just bring

your precious

selves & beautiful energy 


your

company of course 

would

be delightful 

 

 

 

 

 

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I want to  

acknowledge absolutely everyone this time of year for everything that matters to you

. While everyone is on their own unique path with unique happenings… where it counts we are all in this together. 

For

much love with

whatever is needed -Blessings 

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I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

In response to 🤟purely spiritual & quite effectual's post:

8 )Affirmations  & Intentions 

 

I intend on giving myself the most relaxing enjoyable life , and pace myself to the rhythms of ideal moments.

I allow myself to love my choices and do whatever I need and this is

why I love my choices.

 
 
 

tasks.

 

 

You’re the one that did it.

You created the plan

You’ve read the books.

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All feels just right as never before!

I celebrate the finished product and my progress along the way!

 I see myself         feeling         doing         being 

 

You know what to do it and you do it.

You know what to do it and you do it.

You know you have within you what IT TAKES to achieve any goal you set for yourself.

You are the exception.

You are the success.

you’re doing it right now.

you’re the one that did it.

you’re the one that figured it out.

 

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“I am centered and calm. Information flows to me.”

“I understand what is needed. I know what I need to do.”

“My focus is clear. My attention flows to one thing at a time.”

“I focus on this task only. This task is easy.”

“I take joy in doing one thing at a time.”

“Clarity”

“Focus”

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

Q 1) What might inspire me to

be 


do

have

what

I am so desiring?


1) Prayer 

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2) Affirmations 

3) Intentional Living 

To be what I am desiring ….

I find prayer - speaking to my Loving Creator

about my hearts

real feelings ,

 

thoughts ,

&

 

ideas

are all wonderful openings

for remembering

all things

that are best for me


& that

these  wonderful things 

are indeed possible… attainable .

….

 

and that the aloneness

 

with big challenges

 

are the making of  the thoughts

 

that hinder the very life

I am yearning for .

 

So..

To do what I am desiring …

affirmations 

prayer 

audios

 

I need to create new thoughts 

To have what I am desiring …

I need to surround myself not only with good listeners ,

 

& /or people who are so quick

& ready to respond with hollow words ‘I understand’ -

when experience says otherwise

though 

More so

with 

 

People who

understand aren’t to rescue -

that don’t

 ignore the suffering

of another.

though dont try to

be all things to all people

bc not possible .

God can , people are people and when doing their part - they do their best work by being the love they are … being … not undertaking everything - it’s not their job .

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in addition 

People who say

they

understand can’t be there for others

if they never truly learned to be there for themselves. 

 

I will surround

myself with people who accept me in

getting thru my

way

thru the God which exceeds my understanding, not theirs .

I need to choose not to be around others when others cannot adequately support my spirit & not only where I want to be though where I currently am.

I need to spend less time with others who do not have

desire about being there for me -

 

it is evident - that my independence is very necessary no matter who is available and how they are able

 

I need to work on creating change incrementally .

My incrementally is not the same as others - it’s not their less or their more.

 

my life has been on

change /

&

go since loss &

now preparing for work place ASAP

Though whoa … slow down self -

we are still preparing 



To have what I am desiring …

prayer 

affirmations 

ACTION

( to be continued)

To have - I need to be grounded 

in Faith , Belief & Trust 

I need to remember what I believe a good life can look like.

I need to be grounded in selfcare 

I need to not live in the challenges and fears of others.

I need to be grateful for the good that guides me

& remember this Good has always been there

& it’s up to me to be in the place that can trust that everything is ok

regardless of hard work ,

regardless of people

who don’t understand,

and regardless of the yearning for what I have lost .

My timeline is none of anyone else’s business

regardless of how logical it may appear

to them

for the most

well meaning people.

 

 

 

 

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

In response to 🤟spacious paths's post:

Big shout out - for all of the pure Love that you have posted here is this Happiness meeting!

You're a beacon of Light with a wealth of high vibrational loving energy! 

Thank you for bringing this Spiritual and Soulful Self Love and Self awareness.

You are doing a glorious job of taking care of yourself and making every adjustment necessary on your end. I love and support you and I appreciate your Spirit, your clarity and your heart quality. I believe in you and I believe that you and your inner determination and perservance. I know you are more than enough!!

 

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

I trust more and I allow myself to move forward, personally and professionally.

I chose clarity - so that I can be more intentional with all that I am studying and processing.

I believe in all forms of healing.

I believe in alignment b/t my heart, mind, body and Spirit.  I trust what comes forward from that alignment.

Self Love is my daily path and there is a progression that allows for all needs, all top priority needs to be completely engaged, and the new growth will be assimilated. 

I release all fear and doubt. I know that everything that I want and need will come to me at the time when I am ready to manifest it. 

My purpose is to grow in knowledge and in skills - and to grow Spiritually in a way where I am a source for my own healing, and that healing begins choosing to bring harmony and peace where  disharmony and harm exist.

 

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

In response to 🤟spacious paths's post:

I agree, wholeheartedly.

Prayer, affirmations and intentional living...

I have found that prayer is more than words... it's time. It requires surrender and it requires asking for direction. It requires patience and faith, then I have to let go and Let God.

With Faith, comes works.

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
Thank you LIAMEC!

Glad you are here !

 

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:

love your work!

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:

absolutely 

I have found that prayer is more than words...

it's time.

It requires surrender

and it requires asking for direction.

It requires patience and faith,

then I have to let go

and Let God.

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

3) What is on my mind right

now that I know needs

my attention in an important way ?

I would like to remind

myself - all of my feels are lovely .

All of my feelings are my friends

My feelings reach me so many things about myself & my life
I thank my feelings for everything they have always given me & I allow them to be what they always have been —-MINE.

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

 Affirmations

ღMy heart knows the path, and being heart centered I quickly receive full view of awesome.

ღI follow my heart and feel a sense of freedom, awe and release

ღI Am creativity, kindness, love, beauty, expansion, unlimited abundance and receptivity.

ღWhatever I need is simply there when I need it.

ღI allow myself to be in and feel perfect peace.

ღI efficiently transition into each new activity, fully knowing and trusting that my consciousness will adapt, overcome, and enjoy each present circumstance.

ღLIFE GETS EASIER AND EASIER FOR ME

ღI feel motivated and inspired now for those awesome things which create the life I love!!!

 

 

 

 

I am the co-architect of my own reality.

I step back & allow My Creator 

the Majestic Creator , The 1 G_d , loving God 

do a Perfect Mighty Work in my life 

I leave room for His Perfection .

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more Affirmations:

  →   Wow! I now have the awesome ability to accomplish tasks of all levels of emotional & physical complexity with uncanny ease.
  →   Today's tasks were written by my Creator - the G_d Spark in my soul & when I need elevation.  I surrender some more 
 
→   I strongly believe I know the words to say or write when desired and or needed, and I give thanks for this ability.

  →   I have the amazing talent of transforming a job that is not my cup of tea into a miracle elixir.
 

→   I have developed a reputation for being an intensely SOLUTION-ORIENTED person.
 

→   I handle my life with joy and ease.
 

→   I am the balance my spirit already is.
 

→   My loving, joyful and creative possibilities multiply exponentially at will.
  →   This is not fine, it is perfection . My life allows perfection & the G_d which exceeds my  short sided view is in control giving me the Royal Treatment of a Good Life now.
 

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

2) I am so desiring ….

I am so desiring to be none other 

than myself .

I love where I have been & yes it hurts to have had such a significant loss in my life -

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Though I am so grateful for all that my past has given me

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4) The important things

on my mind are now:

being easy & gentle with myself , my life & others

 & letting go of people , places & things to allow my life to feel & be tended to.

You Are Loved Unconditionally- Being LOVE

 

Article Feeling The Love ❤️ Even When Spouse Has passed

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I once read unconditional love is not personal. I love that!

Think about it.

Be love, and loving unconditional will be the path of least resistance... more often than not,

 

 

Love goes much deeper than admiring or not admiring a behavior.

Love is what we are, and no one can take away that quality.

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In response to 🤟 ˚ease's post:

8) create your own questions

What tools help me be the best version of myself and am I satisfied with my ability to use them & how would I like to better this process?

a. prayer

b. Writing

c. A support system and friends(not all friends are part of my support system  not all of my support system are my friends

d. Gratitude ,

Appreciation,

Loving heart ,

Affirmations,

quotes,

reading,

intentions,

mindfulness,

audios, once I have, and also from YouTube


e. Assessing my values,

my thoughts,

my feelings,

acceptance for what I find out,

and the desire,

the willingness,

the fortitude and the courage

to change everything that will make a

good difference in my life in some progressive ways 

how would I like to better

this process?

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I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

  • I take time to connect with myself so that I can be completely present and connect with others.
  • I receive this moment just as it is.
  • Creating a healthier future and living a more loving life begins with finding it within myself.
  • Resilience is a way to choose love and peace over anger, denial and despair.
  • Radical acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:

Glad to see you back 

& enjoying your thoughts 
you have been sharing 

I feel the Richard Rohr (:

I feel the person you are deep diving for what

uniquely matters to you 

Happy Early Valentine’s  💝 Day!

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

As Valentines  gets closer 

My heart has been opened healthily & ready to love more

myself & those that allow me to give in healthy ways.

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Declarations for being

giving &

receiving coming soon

 

I am caring for myself while hoping to be very clear & kind w/ others 


Love is the easy part for me - though reframing

is needed 

& currently allowing now

 

Affirmations  in process 

I appreciate the pace

I have chosen to live,

in the space and time

I have chosen to love.

 

I maintain my balance

between my personal sacred

growing truths

and those

which belong to others

I am in tune

with what my body

needs for optimum

health.

As I prepare for my next level  ,

I recognize my memories are important ,

my dreams are important

& my Creator

who gave me access to

life  and all things

is the ultimate

in importance .

thank You! 

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

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I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

Purpose - today
my purpose for this season of my life became clear.

Within

my purpose I had so

much gratitude, self forgiveness & forgiveness for others.

I love the life God gave me . 
I love the life God is now opening up for me - because I have officially gotten out of the way.

I compare myself to no one , never have - never will . I simply love all the love I am so very grateful to have been given .

I made the perfect choice to dwell in peace, appreciation and freedom! ◦ -I Am allowing myself to Be whatever I enjoy feeling. I do this simply and powerfully by doing more of what works in my life…

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