˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted on 04/02/2024. Last edited on 19/02/2024.

This Happiness meeting topic
Title:-Valentines Day - Allowing Self Love Every Day

Suggested Focus Questions :
(inspired by Ariane Benefit)
1) What might inspire me to be
do have what I am so desiring?
2) I am so desiring ….
3) What is on my mind right now that I know needs my attention in an important way ?
4) The important things on my mind are now:
5) “What might make it easier for me
to learn about ___________
To learn about _______ I will ____
6) “What might make looking at my calendar
even more enjoyable
for things I look forward to doing?”
7) I will love to look at what is coming up because: ____
8) create your own questions or affirmations & just enjoy yourself

It’s not quite officially Valentines Day
& this meeting thread isn’t really completely created
though join in as is
& love love
love
your very self today & everyday 💖
being a gift to ourselves to
better love one another 


 
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“I fully embrace my life, exactly as it is. I love myself entirely as I am. I give thanks for this wondrous day.”

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(inspired by Ariane Benefit)
think about it:
What might inspire You
to be
do
have
what You
are
so desiring?
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What is on
your
mind right now
that
You
know needs
Your
attention in an important way ?
“What might make it easier for You
to learn about ___________
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“What might make looking at Your calendar
even more enjoyable
for things You look forward to doing?”
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Let’s love ourselves well so we can be who we really are - Love
Link to previous meeting Link
link to older meeting
would enjoy anyone who would like to stop by
All welcome
just bring
your precious
selves & beautiful energy
your
company of course
would
be delightful


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I want to
acknowledge absolutely everyone this time of year for everything that matters to you
. While everyone is on their own unique path with unique happenings… where it counts we are all in this together.
For
much love with
whatever is needed -Blessings
 
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˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted on 04/02/2024. Last edited on 05/02/2024.
In response to 🤟purely spiritual & quite effectual's post:
8 )Affirmations & Intentions
→I intend on giving myself the most relaxing enjoyable life , and pace myself to the rhythms of ideal moments.
I allow myself to love my choices and do whatever I need and this is
why I love my choices.
You’re the one that did it.
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You’re the one that figured it out.
All feels just right as never before!
I celebrate the finished product and my progress along the way!
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I see myself feeling doing being
You know what to do it and you do it.
You know what to do it and you do it.
You know you have within you what IT TAKES to achieve any goal you set for yourself.
You are the exception.
You are the success.
you’re doing it right now.
you’re the one that did it.
you’re the one that figured it out.


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“I am centered and calm. Information flows to me.”
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“I understand what is needed. I know what I need to do.”
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“My focus is clear. My attention flows to one thing at a time.”
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“I focus on this task only. This task is easy.”
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“I take joy in doing one thing at a time.”
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“Clarity”
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“Focus”
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˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted on 04/02/2024. Last edited on 05/02/2024.
Q 1) What might inspire me to
be
do
have
what
I am so desiring?
1) Prayer

2) Affirmations
3) Intentional Living
To be what I am desiring ….
I find prayer - speaking to my Loving Creator
about my hearts
real feelings ,
thoughts ,
&
ideas
are all wonderful openings
for remembering
all things
that are best for me
& that
these wonderful things
are indeed possible… attainable .
….
and that the aloneness
with big challenges
are the making of the thoughts
that hinder the very life
I am yearning for .
So..
To do what I am desiring …
affirmations
prayer
audios
I need to create new thoughts
To have what I am desiring …
I need to surround myself not only with good listeners ,
& /or people who are so quick
& ready to respond with hollow words ‘I understand’ -
when experience says otherwise
though
More so
with
People who
understand aren’t to rescue -
that don’t
ignore the suffering
of another.
though dont try to
be all things to all people
bc not possible .
God can , people are people and when doing their part - they do their best work by being the love they are … being … not undertaking everything - it’s not their job .

in addition
People who say
they
understand can’t be there for others
if they never truly learned to be there for themselves.
I will surround
myself with people who accept me in
getting thru my
way
thru the God which exceeds my understanding, not theirs .
I need to choose not to be around others when others cannot adequately support my spirit & not only where I want to be though where I currently am.
I need to spend less time with others who do not have
desire about being there for me -
it is evident - that my independence is very necessary no matter who is available and how they are able
I need to work on creating change incrementally .
My incrementally is not the same as others - it’s not their less or their more.
my life has been on
change /
&
go since loss &
now preparing for work place ASAP
Though whoa … slow down self -
we are still preparing
To have what I am desiring …
prayer
affirmations
ACTION
( to be continued)
To have - I need to be grounded
in Faith , Belief & Trust
I need to remember what I believe a good life can look like.
I need to be grounded in selfcare
I need to not live in the challenges and fears of others.
I need to be grateful for the good that guides me
& remember this Good has always been there
& it’s up to me to be in the place that can trust that everything is ok
regardless of hard work ,
regardless of people
who don’t understand,
and regardless of the yearning for what I have lost .
My timeline is none of anyone else’s business
regardless of how logical it may appear
to them
for the most
well meaning people.
Life is about making excellent choices!!
Posted on 05/02/2024. Last edited on 09/02/2024.
In response to 🤟spacious paths's post:
Big shout out - for all of the pure Love that you have posted here is this Happiness meeting!
You're a beacon of Light with a wealth of high vibrational loving energy!
Thank you for bringing this Spiritual and Soulful Self Love and Self awareness.
You are doing a glorious job of taking care of yourself and making every adjustment necessary on your end. I love and support you and I appreciate your Spirit, your clarity and your heart quality. I believe in you and I believe that you and your inner determination and perservance. I know you are more than enough!!
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
I trust more and I allow myself to move forward, personally and professionally.
I chose clarity - so that I can be more intentional with all that I am studying and processing.
I believe in all forms of healing.
I believe in alignment b/t my heart, mind, body and Spirit. I trust what comes forward from that alignment.
Self Love is my daily path and there is a progression that allows for all needs, all top priority needs to be completely engaged, and the new growth will be assimilated.
I release all fear and doubt. I know that everything that I want and need will come to me at the time when I am ready to manifest it.
My purpose is to grow in knowledge and in skills - and to grow Spiritually in a way where I am a source for my own healing, and that healing begins choosing to bring harmony and peace where disharmony and harm exist.
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
In response to 🤟spacious paths's post:
I agree, wholeheartedly.
Prayer, affirmations and intentional living...
I have found that prayer is more than words... it's time. It requires surrender and it requires asking for direction. It requires patience and faith, then I have to let go and Let God.
With Faith, comes works.
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
Thank you LIAMEC!
Glad you are here !
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
absolutely
I have found that prayer is more than words...
it's time.
It requires surrender
and it requires asking for direction.
It requires patience and faith,
then I have to let go
and Let God.
˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted on 06/02/2024. Last edited on 04/03/2024.
˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted on 06/02/2024. Last edited on 12/02/2024.
Affirmations
ღMy heart knows the path, and being heart centered I quickly receive full view of awesome.
ღI follow my heart and feel a sense of freedom, awe and release
ღI Am creativity, kindness, love, beauty, expansion, unlimited abundance and receptivity.
ღWhatever I need is simply there when I need it.
ღI allow myself to be in and feel perfect peace.
ღI efficiently transition into each new activity, fully knowing and trusting that my consciousness will adapt, overcome, and enjoy each present circumstance.
ღLIFE GETS EASIER AND EASIER FOR ME
ღI feel motivated and inspired now for those awesome things which create the life I love!!!
I am the co-architect of my own reality.
I step back & allow My Creator
the Majestic Creator , The 1 G_d , loving God
do a Perfect Mighty Work in my life
I leave room for His Perfection .

more Affirmations:
→ Wow! I now have the awesome ability to accomplish tasks of all levels of emotional & physical complexity with uncanny ease.
→ Today's tasks were written by my Creator - the G_d Spark in my soul & when I need elevation. I surrender some more
→ I strongly believe I know the words to say or write when desired and or needed, and I give thanks for this ability.
→ I have the amazing talent of transforming a job that is not my cup of tea into a miracle elixir.
→ I have developed a reputation for being an intensely SOLUTION-ORIENTED person.
→ I handle my life with joy and ease.
→ I am the balance my spirit already is.
→ My loving, joyful and creative possibilities multiply exponentially at will.
→ This is not fine, it is perfection . My life allows perfection & the G_d which exceeds my short sided view is in control giving me the Royal Treatment of a Good Life now.
˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted on 08/02/2024. Last edited on 04/03/2024.
2) I am so desiring ….
I am so desiring to be none other
than myself .
I love where I have been & yes it hurts to have had such a significant loss in my life -

Though I am so grateful for all that my past has given me

4) The important things
on my mind are now:
being easy & gentle with myself , my life & others
& letting go of people , places & things to allow my life to feel & be tended to.
You Are Loved Unconditionally- Being LOVE
Article Feeling The Love ❤️ Even When Spouse Has passed
I once read unconditional love is not personal. I love that!
Think about it.
Be love, and loving unconditional will be the path of least resistance... more often than not,
Love goes much deeper than admiring or not admiring a behavior.
Love is what we are, and no one can take away that quality.

In response to 🤟 ˚ease's post:
8) create your own questions
What tools help me be the best version of myself and am I satisfied with my ability to use them & how would I like to better this process?
a. prayer
b. Writing
c. A support system and friends(not all friends are part of my support system not all of my support system are my friends
d. Gratitude ,
Appreciation,
Loving heart ,
Affirmations,
quotes,
reading,
intentions,
mindfulness,
audios, once I have, and also from YouTube
e. Assessing my values,
my thoughts,
my feelings,
acceptance for what I find out,
and the desire,
the willingness,
the fortitude and the courage
to change everything that will make a
good difference in my life in some progressive ways
how would I like to better
this process?

3) What is on my mind right
now that I know needs
my attention in an important way ?
I would like to remind
myself - all of my feels are lovely .
All of my feelings are my friends
My feelings reach me so many things about myself & my life
I thank my feelings for everything they have always given me & I allow them to be what they always have been —-MINE.
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As Valentines gets closer
My heart has been opened healthily & ready to love more
myself & those that allow me to give in healthy ways.

Declarations for being
giving &
receiving coming soon
I am caring for myself while hoping to be very clear & kind w/ others
Love is the easy part for me - though reframing
is needed
& currently allowing now
Affirmations in process
I appreciate the pace
I have chosen to live,
in the space and time
I have chosen to love.
I maintain my balance
between my personal sacred
growing truths
and those
which belong to others
I am in tune
with what my body
needs for optimum
health.
As I prepare for my next level ,
I recognize my memories are important ,
my dreams are important
& my Creator
who gave me access to
life and all things
is the ultimate
in importance .
thank You!
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Purpose - today
my purpose for this season of my life became clear.
Within
my purpose I had so
much gratitude, self forgiveness & forgiveness for others.
I love the life God gave me .
I love the life God is now opening up for me - because I have officially gotten out of the way.
I compare myself to no one , never have - never will . I simply love all the love I am so very grateful to have been given .
- I take time to connect with myself so that I can be completely present and connect with others.
- I receive this moment just as it is.
- Creating a healthier future and living a more loving life begins with finding it within myself.
- Resilience is a way to choose love and peace over anger, denial and despair.
- Radical acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted on 11/02/2024. Last edited on 12/02/2024.
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
Glad to see you back
& enjoying your thoughts
you have been sharing
I feel the Richard Rohr (:
I feel the person you are deep diving for what
uniquely matters to you
Happy Early Valentine’s 💝 Day!
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