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Posted on 04/09/2015. Last edited on 28/09/2024.

Relationship talk has so many angles, and often hear sweeping statements one way or the other…though, one area that I rarely hear people speak of which can aid relationships, is the beauty of uncertainty(:

Sometimes we believe we think we know someone…because they are responding as we would in certain instances.

We see people from our own personal references. The beauty of another person is …knowing they are another person…and it takes time to become clear who a person is… Though, when we leave space for a person to reveal …we may enjoy their being by not imposing what/who we believe they are. And …while we are all on our own unique path…often our ways are not set in stone… and negotiating is the ticket …if it isn’t obstructing a persons basic values…

…timing doesn’t always happen …when we want it to… It is ideal when things work out that way…Though, when we allow…a person to be in their space…and their timing… Sometimes bigger needs get met…Both parties can grow individually, and come together…when the growth time table is respected.

Though, there would have to be at least a desire to respect, connect so individuals can grow up ….and the relationship can grow up. And basic communication tools and life experience also must exist…or expectations, boundaries and common courteousness slip through opportunities to engage with harmlessness.
just some thoughts… SelfCare _{aka Appreciating˚}

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Posted on 04/09/2015. Last edited on 21/09/2017.

Clarity is not about gaining a clearer
understanding. It is the willingness to
live without a need for understanding
by surrendering yourself to the fate of
your highest possibility. From this
space, you may come to realize that
clarity is what sees, not the way
Something is seen
Matt Kahn

Thank you Appreciating,
this is a lovely and thoughtful thread…

a lot to think about…!

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Posted on 04/09/2015. Last edited on 08/10/2015.

thank you for reading & taking the time to hear my thoughts(:

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Posted on 11/10/2015.

“It is in the realm of uncertainty, that your passion is found.” _{Anthony Robbins}

In response to SelfCareJoy’s post:

Yep! I love it…The beauty of another person is …knowing they are another person…and it takes time to become clear who a person is…

That is why I am such a Kindness freak..When we meet another person, we never know what battle they are fighting, so being kind is kinda nice.

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Posted on 11/10/2015.

In response to Poppy’s post:
Thanks Poppy(:

I too fit that place of giving & relate well to it…Thanks for sharing that connection(:

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Posted on 20/11/2015.

By embracing uncertainty with regard to the “hows” of dream manifestation, and allowing it, not fearing it, you actually increase my options for blowing your dear, sweet mind.

Yeah, this is good. Really good.

Ca-pow, The Universe
_{and yes…©Mike Dooley, www.tut.com} (:

When it comes to relationships, I read or heard this somewhere:
Acceptance is the key and it begins with me. —- Unknown

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Posted on 20/11/2015.

In response to Poppy’s post:
wonderful Poppy! thank you for posting this.

Why do we neglect the most important relationship that we will ever have, the one with ourselves???

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Posted on 23/11/2015. Last edited on 14/04/2016.

The true spiritual path is not so much about changing the kind of works that we do, as it is about realizing the need to change for whom it is that we do them. _{Guy Finley}

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Posted on 13/08/2016. Last edited on 27/12/2016.

“Each time you stay present with fear and uncertainty, you’re letting go of a habitual way of finding security and comfort.” ~ Pema Chodron

The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably deal with. Anthony Robbins

Faith means living with uncertainty–feeling your way through life, letting your heart guide you like a lantern in the dark. _{Dan Millman}

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Posted on 13/08/2016.

Embrace relational uncertainty. Its
called romance. Embrace spiritual
uncertainty. It’s called mystery.
Embrace occupational uncertainty
It’s called destiny. Embrace
emotional uncertainty. It’s called
joy. Embrace intellectual
uncertainty it’s called revelation.

Mark Batterson

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Posted on 27/07/2018. Last edited on 04/09/2018.

In response to Poppy's post:

so true

Uncertainty melded with acceptance in life

brings (complete personal) freedom

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Posted on 28/09/2024.

I drop the need for certainty;

I am comfortable with ambiguity.

( affirmation by Dr David Richo)