★Owning & Enjoying Your Own Life

˚ I AM joy of clarity, being & doing  

Posted on 17/04/2015. Last edited on 24/08/2016.

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Owners versus Victims
_{Steve Chandler uses this concept in his various seminars}

• ** Owners create while Victims react.
• ** Owners believe that they have substantial control of their actions while Victims believe other people or events have control of their life.
• ** Owners are “building a life” while Victims are “making a living”.
• ** Owners “get something from” every experience while Victims “try to get through” experiences.
• ** Owners “use life” to gain while Victims feel “used by life”.
• ** Owners “want to” do things while Victims think they “should”, “ought to” do things. Owners are focused on their actions while Victims are pre-occupied with lots of events.
• ** Owners “buy in” to change and new actions while Victims use the “wait and see” approach.
• ** Owners use language of possible while Victims use the language of restriction.
• ** Owners deliberately jump-start a positive cybernetics loop while Victims enter into negative cybernetics loop.
• ** Owners think positive and optimistically while Victims think negatively and pessimistically. _{summary from e-consultants}
  

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  quotes you may like
  “The Psychology of Supreme Certainty”

Being Grateful. That is the first step on the path to Joy. — Sarah Ban Breahtnach

I will tell you that there have been no failures in my life. I do not want to sound like some metaphysical queen, but there have been no failures. There have been some tremendous lessons…. — -Oprah Winfrey

inner confidence

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are you a creator?

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