Hello All,
Wishing everyone well! Thank you for reading and for joining us for this Happiness meeting!!
We have chosen the topic "Cultivating Clarity," as a means to focus on our top priorities and be diligent, productive and coherent with our own list of top priorities while also finding and creating inner peace.
My intention is to draw up a list of my highest priorities. I am going to choose no more than 3 top priorities. Inner peace is the bedrock of manifestation, in my opinion.
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
Affirmations:
I choose to experience my top priority as a Gift that I am giving to myself.
I bring my Soul into my goals.
I am giving myself this amazing life journey, and I am proud of who I am.
I accept that I am good enough to pass this test.
This exam is not bigger than I am.
I choose to focus on being competent for the entire content that this exam covers.
I will stay calm and focus.
I will listen, I will feel and I trust my Self. I trust my judgement.
I will love and accept Self unconditionally.
I focus on being successful.
Focus questions:
- AS you create your list of priorities, how does your list make you feel? Does your list inspire you or does it create anxiety? Are you feeling authentic inspiration?
- Which priority inspires you the most? Which priority on your list is going to be the most life changing?
- Take time to distinguish what you can do that would give you access to improving workability for home/personal life, health or for work life.
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
Affirmations & Other Self Talk
I release any and all hopes of perfection and accept my journey as it unfolds.
I am resilient and adaptable in the face of change.
I nurture my mind and body to enhance my memory, focus and abilities as I allow myself to peacefully evolve for this season in my life.
Spiritual Life Mindful Loving Life

When I set a goal
I am sure I know my why
|
I allow my actions
to have meaning
that lets me know
I care about me & my life
|
My action speaks to me with love
|
I set goals that are relevant to my heart

I AM the passion
for forming my
detailed manageable plans
for my meaningful projects.
|
My goals are clear, specific, and measurable.
I AM the certainty of my motives
for my
high priority projects .
|
Types of self-compassion coming soon
|
˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted 3 weeks ago. Last edited 2 weeks, 5 days ago.
FOCUS QUESTIONS FOR YOUR CONSIDERATION
1 How do your expectations and desires shape your understanding of yourself, and in what way do they contribute &/or hinder your journey toward inner outer peace?
key words/ideas : your expectations, your understanding of yourself,contribution /hindrance/ your journey
The rest of the questions are being redone
|
Bonus Question
What factors do you believe contribute to your short term memory 'glitches' 'challenges' and how have you actively sought to understand these issues in order to foster your growth and development? Do you believe bettering your memory matters to evolve and why?
|
|
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
Thank you Life is about making excellent choices for taking the time & focus to create and allow a Happiness meeting for what best serves us & hopefully those who follow or actively post with us
In response to ˚ I AM joy of clarity, being & doing's post:
Thank you for identifying this topic! This is going to be a boost in self empowerment!
Thank you for all of your excellent questions.
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
Thank you! It only takes 2 to have a meeting & I'm so pleased you are here to create.
And as always -I welcome all members to take a look & share their focus.
My top 3 priorities:
- I am choosing inner peace as my top priority.
- My second top priority is studying for my certification exam.
- My third priority is daily scheduled exercise. It's likely that I will join a gym or pilates class so that I have sign up and be on time!! All the exercise can release endorphins and I can make visable improvements and those improvements will support me pre-testing scores!
- Everything that I am choosing -- is all going to enrich my memory.
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted 3 weeks ago. Last edited 2 weeks, 6 days ago.
In response to ˚ I AM joy of clarity, being & doing's post:my expectations, my understanding of myself, a contribution /a hindrance?/ my journey
thank you for your patience / will be redoing this
1) I expect myself to be at peace. That doesn't mean I'm totally intolerant of a lack of peace for myself when it occurs
or even the witnessing of
that lack of peace within others. It's simply a powerful intention for myself. And it's a desire not an expectation for others.
I am more than a widow , though it is a big part of my story
I feel hindered in valued areas
when I expect others
whom I know well or others at a first encounter to deliver a certain behavior that lacks support
It is very nice to have support - though that’s my job(unless it is from a source who 'gets this)
support from my husband was excellent because
it was a solid friendship
that was ‘our everything’ I prosper from this understanding -who he was -who we were together &
that I am not married to the world /
Desires My desires are key.
I write, review & stay in touch with my inner outer life. I am proud of living as I have while going thru such a traumatizing loss.
I don’t have the luxury of a negative thought.. Why would I want to entertain negativity?
self criticism My patterns of my expectations & desires that I notice that may lead to self-criticism… are
when I allow myself to receive the world's mirror view instead of my own.
(* world- people and the constructs of the negative influences in the world that seem to be in my face)I can only be in 1 place (well) at a time. I stray away from what doesn't give me the focus to be my best person even under the worst conditions.
“Never tell me the odds!” – Han Solo, ‘Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back’ (1980)
If someone says - 'that can't happen' 'that won't happen' Or they believe I need to be reminded what I'm up against -when I 'obviously' am doing what is reasonably possible for me… not only is it not supportive … it lacks the understanding that human beings often need … that the odds may not include us all… that's why I love the quote-'don't tell me the odds. My weakness with people is believing is that their level of empathy will grasp what I share the way I would like it to be understood
My expectations align with my true values -the minute I stop listening to others perceptions of me/my life. Even when they are kind… which I prefer … I prefer people admitting they can only know themselves … though they can appreciate the work I put into being me. To me, that's the highest praise you can give another human being who is actively doing their best, and they share they are.
question that really speaks to me is the question about short term memory enhancement-goals/intentions/ Glitches /factors/Mindfulness in daily life/awareness /thoughts//empower
will be back to work on these further
Its wise to not exclude others ... though way wiser priority to be in touch w/my self first







|
˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted 3 weeks ago. Last edited 2 weeks, 6 days ago.
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:Thank you Life is about making excellent choices It is my pleasure to review the questions you've prepared ... back in a moment
- AS you create your list of priorities, how does your list make you feel?Does your list inspire you or does it create anxiety? Are you feeling authentic inspiration?
Sometimes my list is awesome and too much at the same time.
I am actively engaged in truly life determining changes daily.
I don't focus on anxiety -This is the reason I prefer not to speak about the topics the world engages in.
I have my own things that need such attention and daily reviewing & prioritizing … action & maintaining manageability -that could be its own headline (:
My goal is to make my headline one I'm proud of. And once I achieve these goals I hope to pass on the lessons and tools to others who may prosper going thru similar areas of living …
(& desire a life they will truly love)
- Which priority inspires you the most? Which priority on your list is going to be the most life changing?
They all inspire me because they are all life changing. It will contribute to finding and aligning with my truest identity/values
That possibility is next week
Another one will have me knowing what areas of my health need the most attention-so I don't spin my wheels or go off the rails/detour
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
My list isn't always comforting... That is why I reassess my why regularly ... Stress can make you forget that

|
|
Priorities
1) health, self care, truly being in touch w/the next right thing daily for my body's real needs/food/exercise etc
2) re-entering work force where it adds to my security & doesn't detract from the many other things that matter to me
3) a sanctuary in my home -peace & order
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
- Take time to distinguish what you can do that would give you access to improving workability for home/personal life, health or for work life.
love this question,back in a moment
In response to ˚ I AM joy of clarity, being & doing's post:
I am amazed at how alive this meeting has become for me...
From the very beginning, when I was opening with some affirmations, I had to take a moment, kind of like a test drive in a new car... For a few minutes, I kept erasing my affirmations - they were not who I am in This moment.
Just now, out of nowhere, I was given a glimpse of where and why I am stopped with certain priorities....
Now that I have more information, I can address all of this new insight with unconditional certainty.
That's IT.
Fear has been like a choke hold.
Now that I am aware of that, I CHOOSE to be empowered, just like my affirmation: that test is not greater or better than I am.
I AM bringing my SOUL into my goals.
“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.
In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
good for you, my friend!
I'm happy w/you!
˚ allowing the best of everything
Posted 2 weeks, 5 days ago. Last edited 2 weeks, 4 days ago.
for my newer life
I approach conversations with a healthy mindset.
I am confident in my ability to express my thoughts and feelings.
My voice is valuable,
I communicate clearly and effectively.
I embrace opportunities to share my ideas with others.
I am confident in my ability to express my thoughts and feelings.
I am open to listening and learning from those around me.
I express myself with ease and grace.
I am calm and composed during conversations.
I trust my instincts when communicating with others.
I trust the Almighty Creator which is why I trust my Self
I am the epitome of capabilities & having meaningful and impactful discussions.
I am comfortable sharing my experiences and insights
I don't believe you can adapt to a circumstance
without expansion... unless your idea of adaptation is complacency.
Today I have chosen while various external circumstances are just goofy... I've chosen to look at goofy in the face & remember I didn't come here to join goofy , be goofy or anything else that is unfitting to what I've learned along the way & choose to be open to down the road
To me, getting out of the way of
A True Surrender
is where
wisdom
and the true enhancement
of blessings
are
Surrendering
becomes
active wisdom
and we are
reminded
nothing
ever
stays the same
Surrender
contains
the promise
that
we can
Experience
in our
heart …in our soul… in our lives
the
opportunities
that
truly are
just for us
and more
than we could have ever planned
alone.
All is forever
changing
and
Surrender
is the allowing
of going
BEYOND
our small scope
Powerful Surrender
is a blessing
Jump to Top ^^
To get the most out of the bmindful forum, please sign up or log in!
Related Content