We can’t let other people tell us how to feel - though we can address this with ourselves .
Say you have had a significant loss, the last thing most anyone wants is to have someone say - ‘get happy’ … Most of us would want to run & isolate from those ‘who don’t get it’
Though… when we instruct ourselves - that we are ready to give life another perspective … another opportunity… we become inspired.
I am not sure where I found this, bc I surely believe in giving credit where it is due
It goes like this :

He/She Is Gone
Dedication
By Anonymous
You can shed tears that he/she is gone, Or you can smile because he/she lived.
You can close your eyes and prayer that he/she will come back, Or you can open your eyes and see all that he/she has left.
You heart can be empty because you see him/her, Or you can be full of the love that you shared.
You can turn back on tomorrow and live yesterday, Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember him/her and only that he/she is gone, Or you can cherish his/her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back, Or you can do what he/she would want:
Smile
Open your eyes
Love and
Go on....
BE YOU
“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi
Don't put your happiness on hold by giving it conditions such as: 'I'll be happy when...' Choose to feel positive now, and enjoy the journey. - Mario Cortes

BE YOU
“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi
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Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without. - Buddha
Peace is not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative alternatives for responding to conflict. - Dorothy Thompson
Other people are not responsible for our happiness. They also are not responsible for our unhappiness. - Jim Hartness
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“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi
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☼ ►excerpt quoteLife is made up of small pleasures. Happiness is made of those tiny successes. The big ones come too infrequently. And if you don’t collect all of these tiny successes the big ones don’t really mean anything. Norman Lear
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Everything Is A Miracle —by Albert Einstein quoteThere are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. |
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“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi
First have love in your heart;
then do whatever you want
Paraphrase of St. Augustine

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“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi
Love is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality. No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being unless he loves him. By his love he is enabled to see the essential traits and features in the beloved person; and even more, he sees that which is potential in him, which is not yet actualized but yet ought to be actualized. Furthermore, by his love, the loving person enables the beloved person to actualize these potentialities. By making him aware of what he can be and of what he should become, he makes these potentialities come true. ~ ☼Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning


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“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi
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Peace Love Joy is my gentle essence and gives me my happy circumstances.
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“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi

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“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi
Never pass up an opportunity to speak a kind word of appreciation. There are six billion people on the planet, and 5.9 billion of them go to bed every night starving for one honest word of appreciation.
Matthew Kelly

BE YOU
“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi
Always be a little kinder than necessary. James M. Barrie
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Unknown

BE YOU
“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi

BE YOU
“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi

BE YOU
“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.” – Vince Lombardi