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Happiness Mtg. Fall Solstice-“Power Hour: Me First”

9/22/2023: This Happiness meeting is about harnessing energy and taking your Highest Good by the hand...

  • Let's agree that this meeting is as powerful of a tool for creation and manifestation as you choose it to be.
  • Pick up only on what attracts you. 
  • The only design requirement: Be willing to make this your most real, "ME FIRST" .
  • Let's make this all about a brand new creation. 
  • Let's deal with something that is totally out of your box.
  • This has to be about YOU FIRST!!! That may be the hardest part!!!

Create from your Spirit place!

Create from this moment... 

What is your POWER HOUR stirring up for you??

 

 

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

Fall/Winter Solstice

What I appreciate about the fall/winter solstice is that it is symbolic of changing from out door focus and work - to indoor work, the work of working on the inside of the home, and perhaps using all of the garden canning, and eating healthy.

All of the hard work of summer is over. Its now time to tuck in and think of what would your power hour look like...

What is your end goal?

  • Health, fitness, even doing something that is totally necessary (like new eye glasses and better indoor lighting so you can read/study, and bring in what you crave... bring in a bit of nature)
  • Home front: making your home flow so that your power hour can become much more than a Happiness meeting!!
  • Rearrange for the winter. Make space for the new. Out with the old.... 
  • New workability
  • New commitment: Welcoming ME FIRST POWER HOUR: Pick only what is the most attractive to you!

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

I am picking body shaping and increasing flexibility!

  • I am taking my "ME FIRST POWER HOUR" on having new access to things that purely attract me:
  • Build my most active retirement living project. A really ideal location on the perfect and affordable piece of land with safety, privacy, large numbers of amazing old Oaks
  • sweet Hill country nights, country simplicity, candle light nights...
  • healthy, wonderful inner circle of friends 
  • phenomenal healthy, home cooking; weekend get togethers, music
  • eating plant based foods
  • Amazing, endless garden...hook up the outdoor jacuzzi that fosters being one with nature
  • vitality, being open to receiving and giving spiritual blessing
  • animal communication
  • energy work, Tibetan bowls, chimes, 
  • massage, yoga, pilates, clean work out room, set up with music
  • gems, precious stones, turquoise, jewelry design zone
  • I'd love to go weekend rock hounding
  • nurturing my prayer and spiritual body
  • Nice clothes
  • Nice tractor for shifting big rocks. 
  • Design a water feature

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

Happiness Meetings are meant to be increasing new areas of focus!

 

Choose to connect with your inner self

Love having a daily relationship with myself and my daily progress:::

Every moment is open to my now/new...

Learn deeper surrender; totally release lifetime burdens...

Learn to allow yourself get in to your Spirit

 

BE in this moment.

 

Take time to grasp our impermanence.

 

Life is precious GIFT!

Love yourself!

Love what you have created for yourself!

Love your inner circle!

Plant plants! 

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

Celebrating THIS life:

ME FIRST Affirmations!!

  • I am light and I am in this moment
  • I bring harmony to disharmony
  • Peace and all of its' qualities emanate from my heart center
  • I choose to make peace with the unacceptable, and I am free from all forms of suffering
  • I am an empowered co-creator
  • I do my best living and breathing when I am in sync with Highest Good

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:
Wonderful posts

wonderful 

topic

Great idea for a Happiness Meeting thread !

will return 

BE YOU

 


in my opinion

It’s pretty easy to know

what we need to do for ourselves… eventually lol.


 

Basically the desire to do a me first to me means 

for myself 
-to do less of something 

-do more of something 

-or don’t do a particular thing at all.



there are a whole host of reasons why putting ourselves into a mode of me first may take a progression of  personal understanding & a daily practice 

A given is - comprehending

& living (self )love.

It needs ( on my opinion ) to be coupled w/ purpose … the more I tend to me first - the more love I can be for others 


Though , what if identity issues are a challenge ?


For myself , I had a significant loss and it affected my being in touch with where things are in the present , where they are now  (since my loss was traumatic)

& where I am headed for in the future.



I very recently passed a major hurdle , and

I am gratefully coming to terms with what really matters to me , and I love that .



I feel life can be exciting again , and peacefulness in my spirit is becoming a daily experience more often than not


I could have never done this if I didn’t believe in a Higher Power & prayer.


Its all a process , so I know I am not done yet … and grateful for that . Because that means it can only get better from here .


It is doable though

& now more palatable as I allow myself to be truly authentic/ compassionate with myself

w/ wherever I am

& whomever I am interacting with.


We are not an island , though we can treat our spirit with the love it deserves -alone or w/ others 



We can always do / be  a me first

& the love that is our real

essence -will shine on

for  ourselves & others

 even if others don’t understand.


The real deal is we need to .



 

BE YOU

 

Affirmations

 

Trust , Hope Gratitude, Divine Order, Highesr Good, Peaceful Patience 

1)With renewed hope and gratitude,

I remember there is a Divine order

underlying all life.


 

2)I Am the experiencing

of my highest good

and I allow Divine Good

with Peaceful patience

and trust.

Amen


 

 

Emotionally Very Well

3)I am refreshingly

rejuvenated

by every thought

I think and every

feeling I allow.


 

Allowing What’s Right For Spirit 

4)ღI Am allowing myself to

Be whatever I enjoy feeling.

I do this simply and powerfully

by doing more of what

works in my life…


 

5)All traces of critical

voices have been replaced

with encouraging peace,

joy and confidence.


 

Expectations
6)ღI expect personal
empowerment
& an awesome day

 



Self Respect & Balance 

7)ღI am respectfully

attentive to myself

I care for myself

in progressive 

balanced

encouraging 

ways.


 

 

8)ღI choose to do the things

that I know will improve my life.


 

Successful & Enoughness

9)I have all the time

in the world for everything

that is important to me


 

10)I already have desire

and motivation,

now I have everything

it takes to act on what

I need with proactive

completeness and magnificence!!


 

LOVE

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11) I love knowing I love.


 


12)I love knowing I AM love.


 

13)I love allowing love in my life.


 


 14) Under any and all conditions I AM capable, I AM love & kind.
 


Be where I choose / 
need expecting most
benevolent outcome

15)ღI efficiently transition into each new activity, fully knowing and trusting that my consciousness will adapt, overcome, and enjoy each present circumstance. life.


BE YOU

  • I choose to be aligned with my Highest good so that I can elevate and I can see the greater picture.
  • When I come from my Highest Good, I focus on what is the most important and worthy. 
  • I allow and accommodate change in myself and in others.

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

 

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From this day forward it is natural and so easy to recall why extreme gratitude
and appreciation is the only energy I Am.

So here I Am, with much on my plate

much that is way different
someone I have loved a life time

..,and I want to bring that love with me …

 

I have wondered

can I do this?

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R'Ofer Erez



What is your end goal?

To continue growing my faith, strength , Hope & resilience 

To have complete appreciation for my life … all places I have been , where I am in each present moment & an appreciation for the future - knowing I am ALWAYS doing the best I can with all I Am.

To create a sanctuary out of my home .

To be a sanctuary to myself to take me wherever I need/want to be.

To feel the love of the family I have known, and believe there will be loving people I can share my present , my future dreams & my history .

To have working out be a big part of my life again 

To be with like minded & healthy people .

To be around people who will respect my boundaries .

To love personal & professional development - in areas I am

very passionate.

To allow complete security in all areas of my life . I believe in God, and I have a healthy amount of patience for my Good life. My Good Life is now.

 

BE YOU

 

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BE YOU

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from Carla Mejia's site - 25 self care mantras and affirmations 

  1. I value myself. I value my mind, my emotions, my body, & my spirit.
  2. I know my life is a miracle. I respect it like a precious gem.
  3. I take joy in every positive step I take
  4. I believe in myself. I’m excited about my talents, gifts, and qualities.
  5. I am enough. I do enough, I have enough.
  6. I’m always guided on my path. Guidance comes to me easily when I quiet my mind and listen.
  7. I matter. My wants & needs are just as important as anyone else’s. I am allowed to say “NO” to others & “YES” to myself.
  8. I make time to nourish my mind, body & soul
  9. I am abundant in all things that bring me joy
  10. I am worthy of love & fill myself up with love first.
  11. I am beautiful & radiate with light from within
  12. Self-care is a divine responsibility & I accept this responsibility with joy
  13. I am in perfect balance & I am at peace with who I am.
  14. Every day I grow stronger & more relaxed.
  15. I am present in my body. I can center myself with the ease of my breath.
  16. I feel grounded, confident, worthy & whole.
  17. I am in love with taking care of myself.
  18. I tap into the frequency of self-love and abundance.
  19. I love myself. I believe in myself. I support myself.
  20. I speak to myself with kindness & I treat myself with kindness.
  21. The more I care for and love myself, the more love I experience from others.
  22. With this breath I release anything that no longer serves me.
  23. I give & receive with ease & grace.
  24. It is okay for me to have everything I want.
  25. I am comfortable having more than enough.

 

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BE YOU

In response to 🎈if not this-something magnificently better 🎈's post:

Thanks for joining the Power Hour: Me First!

I loved reading your end goals!

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

Question:

  • What risks are you willing to take to reach your goals?
  • How are you going to get there?

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

I allow focus on what is excellent,

good

and praiseworthy.

 


→ I am completely grateful and appreciative for this powerful moment of time. Each moment is my powerful moment of time.

I value my life

I am now living oh so well

I love how I habitually

honor

and respect

my personal needs

and all that matters to me

I now move from

any  forms of Suffering

to complete forms of Simplicity

→   I can do whatever this is now.
I Am doing this to my

evolving

satisfaction.

I  AM good feelings

I AM wonderful plans

always appreciate my plans,

my spiritual flow

and 

how

I feel

about

all of

this now

In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:

  1. What risks are you willing to take to reach your goals?

everything in life has risks … I try to treat life as though it’s rigged in my favor , I do this with prayer I know if I am feeding my thoughts with health life supporting energy … and I create my intentions / plans everyday … I am doing my part & I trust God to handle the rest 

 

 

 

 

2. How are you going to get there?

I am

following my heart/ passion

& listening to  my gut and doing the

footwork & praying .

 

God has my back .

My footwork is mind, body spirit approach … so I will be/feel my best as I do my best 

 

BE YOU

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Thankfulness is very underrated . It is my belief that desires can be so beautiful, and motivating.., though if not energized by heart & soul of sheer gratitude … desires can sound like a spoiled child being given to and still saying more more mote & not fully knowing what they have right now & the good that got them to this moment 

Today I am grateful for being .

I am grateful to be housed , clothes & fed. 
Today I am grateful for absolutely every person, place that has been a part of my journey .

There have been no bad terrible … just experiences. And every one of them

led me to here . Thank You God for life. Truly blessed .

 

 

Shawn Achor’s five happy habits:  
Every morning write down three
new
things you’re grateful for.
I am grateful for all the things I have gathered /collected over the years / I chose them.  & loved them & love the opportunity to see where they fit in my life today .
Journal for
two
minutes a day about a positive experience
from the past 24 hours.
I Will journal for 2 min every day after being grateful or some other wonderful focus
Meditate daily for a
few minutes.
I will meditate daily 
At the start of every day, write an email to someone praising or thanking them.
thank others daily 

Get fifteen minutes
of simple cardio
exercise a day.
working on it 
Jeff Olson,The Slight Edge 

BE YOU

From a to do list --- to a BE-ing list!

I am enjoying the many elevating thoughts - and finding that this moment:

  • I am brand new in a brand new moment. Everything positive is possible...

 

  • I allow all of my favorite attributes to mingle. I am grateful for these aspects that are reflections of the many parts of what I am most attracted to... 

 

  • Feel Oneness with nature and Oneness with the beautiful Gift of Life! 

 

  • Opening and allowing connecting and communication with animals

 

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

In response to Life is about making excellent choices!!'s post:

love your

to do list --- to a BE-ing list!

 

BE YOU

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BE YOU

I'm just mapping on...

I previously wrote the affirmation:

"I am brand new in a brand new moment. Everything positive is possible..."

2 days later, I did something that I really needed to do; it was something that I've needed for a while!  I booked a moving company to load up my stuff and move it from one state to where I am currently living. Even though my property will still need to be in storage, at least it will be near me, and I may actually be able to get an apartment lined up and get a job lined up and get everything to come together at the same time...

I am almost done with a 16 month school program, and I have to take a final certification test, and I'm free!

But, out of this happiness meeting -- I did something that was truly necessary - and it was not attractive, it was painful! BUT - it's no longer painful. Now, it's empowering! Now it's in the present tense, and I can't wait!

I did not see this coming, yet, my freedom is coming. 

:I am brand new in a brand new moment!!

 

Awesome, awesome, awesome!!!

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

What risks am I willing to take??

  • I am willing to face my fears, my inadequacies, my weaknesses and I am willing to bring in a fresh ray of sunlight into the places that need healing light.
  • I am willing to trust in my faith! Faith is my power source!
  • I am willing to discard trivial ego. What matters is how I feel about taking risks. What matters is how I interpret my success. 
  • When it comes to my personal growth, I do not the kind of inner circle where I seek the approval of others, so that is a non-issue.
  • My focus is the big picture: living in the now AND actively creating a retirement that is stable and economically sound and based on being physically active.

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

I am willing to risk being unafraid.

I am willing to risk being confident!

I am willing to risk trusting myself, that I am adequate!

I am enough!!

I am the perfect fit!

“Radical Acceptance is the ability to face hardships with greater love and deeper awareness.
Contemplation shapes radical acceptance as a way to choose love and peace over anger and despair.
Begin by finding this within ourselves before helping others.

  By the power of my belief, coupled with my purposeful fearless actions and my deep rapport with G_d, my future is created and my abundance made manifest.
  →   Financial success is mine, I accept it now
  →   It is safe to express all that is within me. I love, honor, and accept all aspects of who and what I am. As a result, I am energized, expressed, and filled with joy!
  →   I have all the time in the world for everything that is important to me, because my Creator is the author of time & knows how to work it all out.
  →   I am good at creating systems to get so many projects accomplished.
  →   I can honor where I have been by being who I AM.
  →   * I bless the past, let it go and move swiftly into an exciting, new phase of my life.
  →   Today absolutely begins my new life. I am now renewed and restored and progressively even allowing better better better.
  →   I AM the allowing of a rebuild by focusing on my dreams and giving them wings.
  →   I am refreshingly rejuvenated by every thought I think and every feeling I allow.
  →   I am worthy and allow a healthy self-expressed life.
  →   My sharing my voice is a tool for authentic self-expression.
  →   I am proud of my healthy communication skills because my words reflect my heart and my spirit place.
  →   I am calm, patient, and peaceful with those who communicate with areas that differ from my experience.
  →   The timing is perfect The opportunity is perfect I can do this. I AM this. I am beyond this
  →   I trust the timing of everything.

BE YOU

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