There is an ol’ saying, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results.
This thread is dedicated to what each of as individuals is doing and or/will do for specific changes we desire.
BE YOU
going over and over the same thing in my mind without making a decision ,i drive myself nuts
In response to flowergirl’s post:
What are you trying to decide?.. if you don’t mind my asking.
BE YOU
In response to Laurie~LovesFocusingWell’s post:
I want to be on top of my direction where it counts. I want (for awhile at least) to treat my life like a business that I want to succeed.
I want to treat myself:
- like both the owner,
- and my staff..
- with whom I treat with respect
- and believe in the efforts and regular strides attempted
- and direction I’m going
BE YOU
In response to Laurie~LovesFocusingWell’s post:
hi Laurie ,a few things but the main one is the rooms in our house .We have 3 bedrooms ,im in the front which is the biggest ,daughter is in the little one and loves it ,2 lads are in medium size back bedroom.They dont hardley speak to eachother and both would love their own space and some privacy .Downstairs we have a living room at the front ,doors in to a dining room and door into kitchen .Eldest has had dining room as a bedroom which he loves but if we do that again table and chairs have to go either in kitchen -terrible squash – or in living room ,bit of a squash .Also he doesnt often get up till 12 ish so im creeping around downstairs if he is asleep .As i have no spare money at the moment these are the options i can see
lads swap bedrooms with me and we use furniture to partition room and maybe a curtain or bamboo blinds as doors .
I give eldest my bedroom and i sleep on couch – and living room is kept as a sort of best room so animals ,food etc dont come in .My stuff could be stored in bedroom and just some of in baskets downstairs .
I feel im fussing over this biut they are great kids and eldest is applying for the marines in january so i would like home to be as nice as possible before he leaves home .I will happily give him my room but he feels uncomfortable with it being the “ parents bedroom “This thought goes round and round my head driving me mad .Any suggestions would be welcome .I am gratefull we have a home but as i say just want to do the best for my kids .,love flowergirl
i forgot to put ,my bedroom is empty all day as i only sleep in there and am down stairs all day – seems a waste of a big space .
In response to Laurie~LovesFocusingWell’s post:
Sometimes change means, just making room for more modes than 1.
I am in a ready mode for-
- helping family member
- doing the work mode
- taking care of self-care things
- taking care of home needs in level of importance
BE YOU